Is this so much to ask for? Someone who will treat me with respect while also sexual degrading me when I want it?
The problem is it is very hard to tell when you want it.
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Bitch?
this is the politest “bitch” I’ve ever read.
See, I’m easy. As long as it’s purely in a sexual context, I won’t be mad. I might say “No” or “Not right now,” but as long as my partner is saying it from a place of genuine horniness, they can go nuts.
My ex pestered me for a good while with a fantasy: she wanted me to force her to have sex any day she didn’t want to. I wasn’t exactly eager to try this, but it wasn’t a problem because we were having sex every day.
But the day came, and I said “well, she’s been asking for a while, let’s get this over with”. She didn’t need much convincing, I just grabbed her by the back of her neck and told her we were going to have sex no matter whether she wanted or not and that was it (she was quite submissive in bed). After we were done I had a weird feeling because that’s not something I like to do, but I thought “at least I’ve fulfilled her fantasy and now she’s happy”, right?
Well, no. She was angry at me and when I told her “but you’ve been asking for this for months!” she answered “yeah, but I wasn’t in the mood for it today!”.
That’s why you ALWAYS denny insane requests. Never put yourself at risk when you don’t have to, just because someone does not know what they want.
You injure or god forbbid, actually rape someone, you have done an awful thing…and for what?
This is why it’s important to always put emotion last to reason.
Yeah, I’ve always felt like forced sex sounds hotter than it actually is. It sounds so romantic, and everyone thinks they can get in the mood as soon as their partner wants them, but the reality doesn’t quite line-up the same. A pretty key part of any consensual non-consent is setting up a word to break the scene though, so I dunno if I’d beat yourself up too much about it. If she wasn’t in the mood, she should have let you know.
Basically like she said, you both have to happen to be horny in the moment anyways or it’s just a shit time. Use a safeword to stop when not into it, instead of actually saying stop. It’s usually just a roleplay fetish anyways.
Dude you committed rape. Use a safeword.
No, he didn’t. Prior consent was established and there’s no indication she revoked it during the act.
She just didn’t realize some fantasies are more inconvenient than sexy.
Like car sex.
Please inform me in advance of the amount of slut you’re comfortable with so I can make the necessary preparations.
If it would please you, you are a most detestable wench with no lands or titles, and thy garden is that of a common Welshman.
Woah woah fucking woah, that is TOO far. A Welshman? Fuck you
I believe getting fucked is in fact the intention
“I’m not just saying this because I’m horny and this is dirty talk, you really are a filthy whore”
2 hours later
“I wasn’t being serious, it was just dirty talk. You are not a filthy whore”
Don’t play with my emotions like that!
*you’re. This is an edit and not a footnote, therefore the * comes before the word and not after.
Isn’t it the opposite? I’ve never seen a footnote with the number/star at the end of the footnote.
