• 0 Posts
  • 37 Comments
Joined 8 months ago
cake
Cake day: August 18th, 2024

help-circle


  • In Romania the legal drinking age is 18 but regardless if we say it’s commonplace to drink at 17, she just entered that period of time whereas you have been doing it for 5 years.

    Your parents may support you financially but you are expected to learn life skills in those 5 years, also you should be finishing school where you have learned everything you need to further your career and she is just entering it does that not seem strange to you?

    Really the biggest problem is that there is a power dynamic between you, you are more educated, more developed, more experienced, when a relationship should be between two equals. What makes it so much worse at this age is how quickly you hit milestones and how quickly you can completely eclipse the other person



  • Speaking as a person who does not fit the demographic for this service, the big problem I see with it is how you trust that the walking buddy is actually going to be safer than nothing. Uber drivers are somewhat regularly in the news for assaulting women and I know several women that don’t like riding them alone


  • A 5 year age difference isn’t the problem it’s being several developmental and societal milestones apart. That’s why it’s gross, and not just in the U.S. but in many countries.

    A 5 year age difference between a 25year old and a 30 year old is benign a 3 year age difference between a 13 year old and a 16 year old is bad.

    In your case developmentally it should be obvious in terms of both physical/mental development but unless you missed numerous key life events you should be at a very different stage in your life. As she is entering the workforce/post secondary education you should be leaving post secondary/ being at an intermediate level in your career path. While she most likely is still firmly living at home and has others taking care of her you should be able to be fully independent even if you are still living at home, while she can’t legally buy a drink you probably have a substantial alcohol tolerance.

    Like sure there are countries where adult men marry literal children 10-13 but we don’t call those countries open minded





  • For low travel areas slower charging and batteries make a lot more sense as the investment in ultra fast charging is not viable and I don’t see that changing

    I think regulatory inertia Is always going to be a problem but if we are regularly adding charging stations it will get faster as power companies have an incentive to build them and you get staff trained up on them

    Gas stations can still have single point failures for example if their underground tank gets contaminated or damaged and they don’t have a back up and electric doesn’t need to have single point failures you can run them in parallel with breakers able to isolate portions of the system and have redundant transformers

    EV works best if most people charge at home/work and people only charge in public if they don’t have the ability to do it at home or they are on a long drive. So you don’t need to meet the same cars per hour as gas stations.

    I don’t see a world where fast charging is as cheap as slower charging just due to increased losses and more expensive equipment so I believe having 10 500kw chargers would be a better investment than 6 1MW chargers even though technically the MW chargers have a larger throughput they are more expensive to produce/run and have more issues if for example 8 people arrive at once



  • It doesn’t need to be, high voltage transmission lines can run 1000s of MW then you can use a transformer to step the voltage to what you need and then use a rectifier bridge to convert to DC.

    The problem I see is the effect of trying to turn on and off 1MW power from a grid could cause problems so the battery could work a bit as an expansion tank to smooth out grid power, so that you always charge it at 100KW and if you need to increase supply you can slowly increase your power draw without shocking the grid.

    At the end of the day I personally think 1MW charging is overkill and a 10 minute charge time is a perfectly reasonable goal