Riiiight. With the conversation all being around the US, I’d assumed your girlfriend was the one in the US. That’s very different then and frankly, bollocks to those in the US. So many of them believe the AoC is 18 nationwide so there opinion really doesn’t belong in the conversation. If your relationship is legal in Romania and your families are happy, I’d wish you two all the luck in the world.
Then I’m happy for you and wish you a lovely holiday.