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Cake day: June 14th, 2023

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  • One year we bought loud Christmas themed outfits and went to have our picture taken with Santa. But not just Santa, there were minature goats there too. We each held one. They are so stinkin adorable. We were 46? 47? It made our whole week.

    That became our Christmas card. Everyone loved it.

    Go get your picture made. Your sister is a wet blanket that seems to still get embarrassed easily.





  • If you do, and want her to know, then yes say it.

    Does she say it to you?

    My family never really said it to each other. It just wasn’t normalized. Then one day I started thinking I may not have them around forever and I wanted to tell them. So I did. Mostly “love you, bye” when ending a call. And they were a little weirded out at first, but said it back. Now if I wait a beat before saying it, they’ll say it first!


  • I’m sorry your sister is getting bullied. I’m not sure if they had a friendship enough to where your sister can ask her why she’s being like this, and that her behavior is hurtful.

    Or if this is one of those cases where the bully needs a punch in the face to respect boundaries.

    That also made me wonder if the bully is getting bullied herself at home or by other kids, so she’s acting out because she’s miserable too.